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| Loved & Dated Thinking He Will Be My Soulmate |
Question:
I was in love, and I believed I would marry that man but it didnt turn out like this. I know at point he is not honest to me. I know its wrong to have a relationship with a man before marriage and I have dated once before. I always believed that my love was true and then was decieved, I want a good life partner. I have repented but I want to forget him and bring peace to mind, its just hard to let him go. Can you please help me how I can pray for a better future and ask for forgiveness once again?
Answer:
Praise be to Allah.
You shouldn’t despair of Allah’s mercy for it is not becoming of a true believer to do so as the Qur’an explicitly states.
So, you certainly need to repent and ask forgiveness of Allah for your past sins and return to Him earnestly and sincerely. Once you do so, Allah will forgive you.
You should never stop praying to Allah to bless you in your search for a suitable life-partner. You may use any du`a’. You may also choose to pray in your own language from your heart.
Here is one du`a’ you may do well to read on a daily basis: Allaahumma rahmata arjoo falaa takilnee ilaa nafsee tarafata a’ynin wa aslih lee sha’anee kullahu (O Allah, I beseech Your mercy; so do not abandon me to my own devices—even for an instant. Rather, straighten out for me all of my affairs).
Allah Almighty knows best.
Sh. Ahmad Kutty
Question Date: 2012-01-07
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